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From Darkness to Light, Dependence to Freedom, Fear to Fearlessness ....

the bigger wrong

Which is the bigger wrong:

Changing yourself to please someone/because someone told you ... or being the same person and letting it cause unhappiness to others.

According to me the first one is the bigger wrong ... because if you change just so that others dont feel bad or accept you as someone you are not, its cheating. You are basically fooling the other person into thinking about you as someone you are not.

You are pushing the real you to the back and bringing the new 'pleasing' you to the fore. You might be doing it for ur parents, family or friends but according to me its still wrong. If you really feel bad for them and think what you are doing is wrong then really change, but dont pretend that you have changed.

Changing because you crave it is fine ... changing when somebody else is at the helm is wrong.

This entry was posted on Tuesday, March 22, 2005 at 3/22/2005 07:10:00 AM. You can skip to the end and leave a response.

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