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Seeker's thoughts ...

From Darkness to Light, Dependence to Freedom, Fear to Fearlessness ....

Tuesday, July 27, 2010
The process of moving away from someone starts the very moment we meet someone the first time.

The process of moving away from someone is dependent on the event of us meeting that someone and cannot happen without that.

From that very moment we are heading in the direction of moving away from that person. As soon as we meet someone we immediately start moving in the opposite direction.

The moving away can be because of a rift in the relationship, when that someone dies or definitely at the very end when I die. But moving away is confirmed.

It is applicable to all relationships: friends, family, best friend, better-half.

It is applicable to all events: tragic, sad, happy and ecstatic!

In essence, I meet someone just to eventually move away. If during all of my interactions with that someone I can remember this basic and unalterable fact, I would truly enjoy each and every event. I would realize that I am blessed. I am blessed ... only that realization is missing.

Understanding strengthens faith.
Faith influences thoughts.
Thoughts direct actions.
Actions define life.

Monday, July 26, 2010
Give me some sunshine
Give me some rain
Give me another chance
I wanna grow up once again
- 3 Idiots

Let's say I was given another chance. Would any good come out of it? Would I really grow up the way I think I want to grow up?

I don't think so. I believe I will repeat more or less the same mistakes that I made in the past because I "like" making those mistakes consciously/subconsciously.

That's the truth whether I like hearing the sound of it or not. I will again feel those same pressures in life. I will join the rat-race once more. The same prejudices, same outlook, same fears, same competition ... everything else just the same. Enjoying life as-is will be left on the side.

If I had really understood why I am asking what I am asking for I wouldn't ask for an another chance to grow up once again. I would realize that it's still not late and I don't really need a second chance to grow up in order to set right the wrongs I did earlier. That chance is not needed to feel the happiness that I think I have missed all along.

Happiness is when I realize I want happiness and start working towards it. From that moment on. Not before. Not after.

Once I realize that I wouldn't want to grow up again. Instead I would just grow up.